You are not unphotogenic. You're unpracticed and unsafe.

Michaela

Oct 2

3 min read

Understanding the Feeling of Being "Unphotogenic"

I get it. You probably made it this far avoiding photos like the plauge and coming up with any number of excuses that people don't even question. "I'm just not photogenic" is such a good statement to stop people from pressing anymore or asking any more questions. It's the leave me alone answer. The I don't want to talk about it anymore answer.

Well, guess what...I DO want to talk about it.

So many people express feeling unphotogenic, believing that they do not photograph well. They treat it like it's such a definitive thing. Like the universe looked at you and decided, nope, not her, she doesn't get to be cute in photos.

But more often than not, this perception is rooted in factors that have nothing to do with you. The environment, emotional state, and the support system surrounding your experience is 9 times out of 10 the actual reason you don't think you photograph well.

How Your Surroundings Matter

When it comes to feeling good during a photo shoot, the environment really makes a difference. Here are a couple of things to think about:

Studio Settings: A cold, clinical studio with bright lights can make anyone feel stiff and awkward. On the flip side, a chill outdoor spot with soft, natural light can help bring out those genuine smiles and relaxed vibes. On the flip side, some people like the privacy of a studio space where you don't have a bunch of people watching or walking by.
Familiar Places: Being in a new location can ramp up the nerves. But when you’re in a cozy spot, like your favorite park or even your living room, you’re likely to feel more at home and confident.

Confidence and How You Feel

Confidence is everything when it comes to snapping great photos. A lot of folks struggle with how they see themselves and can feel anxious in front of the camera. Here’s what often happens:

Pre-Shoot Jitters: It’s totally normal to feel a bit nervous before a shoot, worrying about how you’ll look. That anxiety can lead to stiff poses and forced smiles, making you feel like you’re just not photogenic.
Self-Criticism: We tend to focus on our perceived flaws—like a bad hair day or an unflattering angle—which can totally overshadow our natural beauty and charm.

Why Support Matters

Having the right people around can make a world of difference during a photo session. Check this out:

Cheerleading Friends: A good friend can really lift your spirits with positive vibes and remind you of what makes you unique.
Helpful Photographers: A talented photographer who knows how to connect with their subjects can create a relaxed atmosphere, making it easier for you to be yourself in front of the camera. And I'm not just talking about yours truly! Having the right fit, the comfort, and the trust is more important than just working with someone because you know them or a friend reccomended them.

Wrapping It Up

Feeling unphotogenic often has more to do with outside factors than anything else. By understanding how your environment, emotional state, and support systems play a role, you can change your mindset and embrace your photogenic side. With the right setup and some encouragement, everyone can capture their true self in photos!